Happy New Year!

Although the new year is just another date on the calendar, it does give us an opportunity to reflect on the past twelve months and how we might make the coming days better.  Many parts of our financial lives do reset with the beginning of the year, so I would like to offer some recommendations for improvement.

1)  Keep better records - This isn't just for the detailed personalities out there.  There is a lot of insight and power that can only come from accurate recordkeeping.  There are even simple solutions like Mint.com that will do most of the work for you.

2)  Accept the past and start fresh - Although real estate troubles or job changes might have changed your financial situation, you can reboot and develop a new financial plan for your current realities.

3)  Reduce clutter - This might include closing some unused accounts or consolidating some old investments.  Less clutter in the practical areas of our lives allows us to focus more on the things that matter most.

4)  Live life more efficiently - There are lots of small things that can be done here.  Reducing unnecessary shopping trips, replacing inefficient light bulbs or appliances and programming your thermastat are just a few.

5)  Insure the important things in life - You should not take insurable risks that could cause harm to your family in the event of an accident or disaster.

6)  Establish an estate plan - This can include a will, health care directives, and a trust.  The first step is to think about it.

7)  Think about your investments - This is an area that can be very costly when ignored for a long period of time.  Each investment involves risks and these should be carefully reconsidered periodically.

8)  Reduce unnecessary debts - There are good debts and bad debts.  Debts should be reviewed, prioritized and paid down in a smart way.  For example - pay down the debt with the highest interest rate first.

9)  Do some math - You might not enjoy numbers, but some basic arithmetic can help your financial security.  Basic assessments of income and outflows and projected future savings balances have to be done periodically to have a sense of realistic goals.

10)  Share what you have learned - Family and friends can benefit greatly from the financial lessons that you have learned through your experience.  Be a good example of healthy habits that will be observed by others.

I could list many more, but this should provide some ideas for many of you.  If this is seems overwhelming, contact a fiscally-minded friend, family member or financial professional.  They would be happy to help!

Should You Save for Your Childrens' College?

Many parents of young children consider putting aside money for their children's college education a top priority.  As a parent of young children myself, I feel like the current and future education of my children is of critical importance.  That being said, everything has a cost and paying for your children's college is something that you need to be able to afford.  A popular online columnist, Emily Lambert, recently wrote about reasons that you might not want to save for college.  As a financial planner, I consistently discuss the cost of a college education with my clients and how to view this expense like an investment instead of an obligation.  I'm continually surprised when I meet parents who are willing to put up to six figures into private school tuition without any sort of idea about what this "investment" might lead to.

I recently attended a presentation by nationally-known parenting experts, Richard and Linda Eyre about entitlement.  They shared the maxim that "ownership is the antidote of entitlement and also the prerequisite of responsibility."  I feel like we should help our children own their education and future career.  As a result, they are much less likely to feel entitled and more likely to suceed.  Part of this ownership might require them to invest in their college education through savings, scholarships or part-time work during college.  Parents have many responsibilities in rearing their children.  These responsiblities often require financial outlays, but I encourage parents to evaluate their spending regarding their children in order to make sure it is leading to ownership instead of entitlement.

Do you have control of your finances?

As I talk to family, friends and prospective clients, I often hear about financial challenges. Most people have financial challenges. If not, they would almost always like to be in a better place when it comes to their financial well-being. I try to remind people that the challenges aren't always the problem. The problem is often the fact that people don't have a clear picture of their financial situation. Many people aren't even aware of what parts of their financial lives they are in control of. I'd like to review a few areas and offer some suggestions.

A good starting point is a net worth statement and a income statement. In plain English, a net worth statement is a listing off all positive and negative account balances in order to come up with the net positive or negative "net worth." An income statement is a listing of all income and expenses over a chosen period of time. Once you have pulled together a basic summary of where you are, you can start to look at what you can control to improve your financial situation.

Bank Accounts - Are you paying unnecessary fees or missing out on earning interest? Do you have adequate savings?

Investments - Are you taking inappropriate risks considering your stage in life? Do you know what you are investing in and why you are doing it? Are your investments diversified? Have you had a professional assessment of your investments?

Real Estate - Do you have the lowest rate available on your mortgage? Is your mortgage balance appropriate? Are you maintaining your home and only spending money on it in "smart" ways?

Credit Cards - Do you pay more interest and fees than is necessary? Do you even need to use credit cards to begin with? Can you reduce the balances that are incurring interest?

Other Loans - Borrowing money for purchases should be well thought out and should not be a frequent behavior.

Salary - Are you living up to your potential at work? Have you evaluated your career path and what type of spending that supports over the long run?

Monthly Expenses - Which of these are necessities and which of these are luxuries? Can you really afford all the luxuries?

Taxes - Do you take advantage of all available deductions? Do you consider the tax impact of your large financial decisions?

The Bottom Line - Are you living within your means? Is more coming in than is going out?

Gaining control of your finances takes work, just like keeping your body healthy, keeping your marriage strong and teaching your children correct principles. Like all of these things, increased financial control will expand your options in life and lead to greater peace of mind. We are all faced with challenges we can't control, but we also have the ability to take charge and chart the path we want to follow in life.

Financial Lessons Learned

With another tax season behind us and some hopeful economic signs appearing on the horizon, I've taken an opportunity to reflect a bit on the past couple years. There are some lessons that have been learned or relearned by myself and many of you out there. If you haven't learned any lessons then this post might give you some more financial insight.

1. "Good Times" can't last forever. Although we are blessed as Americans to have a unique form of government that has fostered much success and prosperity throughout our history, we are still subject to the economic ups and downs of a free market economy. If anything, we are subject to these even more than some more socialist or heavily regulated economies.

2. Freedom isn't free. Somewhat related to my previous point, we have to pay a price for the "ups" in our economic cycles with the "downs" that inevitably follow. More government involvement in our economic lives my flatten these cycle out a bit, but the price of more government is less freedom.

3. There is a cost to everything. The recent downturn has brought out a sort of panic reaction which says we need to pull ourselves out of this downturn--quickly and at any cost. The cost of some of the recent government legislation is very significant. It might not be immediately apparent, but we are burdening our future generations with more taxes without giving them a say in the decision. There are also costs to the substandard moral behavior which brought on much of this crisis. The cost has been severe and not just to those who acted unethically.

4. Economic cycles are beneficial. Although this recent recession has caused much financial pain in many people's lives, changes are often made which will pay future dividends. Companies have improved processes and removed excess costs. Families have reevaluated purchasing decisions and paid down debt. Governments have been forced to provide services more efficiently or in a more need-based manner. Many of these changes will strengthen our country to allow for future growth cycles.

5. Despite the financial challenges, we should be grateful. We are blessed with families, friendships, freedoms and opportunities that many people in the world could never imagine. Let's not forget those things because of some short-term disappointments and surprises.

Finance - It's About More than Money

Finance types like me might view money as a practical, unemotional topic. It's all about what comes and what goes out in dollars and cents, right? My professional and life experiences have taught me that it is often a lot more than that.

I attended a presentation this morning at my local chapter of the Financial Planning Association. The speaker, a counselor and expert on the emotional sides of money confirmed the role emotions often play. She pointed out that Adam Smith, the famous economist who wrote "The Wealth of Nations" in 1776, first wrote about how our mental fallacies can influence economics in "The Theory of Moral Sentiments" in 1759.

Money is a representation of our efforts, our blessings, and our good fortune. It can be used to provide for the necessities of life or to acquire the luxuries of the world. What we do with that money is largely determined by our values, morals, habits and desire for instant versus long-term gratification. How a husband and wife feel about money is often illustrated when they make a significant financial decision together. These feelings are often rooted in much more than the item at hand. Children often model the behavior they see in their parents.

As an individual, I try to consider what is behind my financial decisions and consider all parties involved and the greater good, not just my own biases. As a financial professional I use my education and experience and the non-emotional role I play in significant financial decisions to help my clients. I care greatly about their financial successes, but I separate myself from the emotional decisions that may be holding them back from even greater practical success in their lives.

Finances & Children

Being a father of four children, I'm becoming more experienced in this topic. My wife and I were also raised in large families and have discussed the various financial lessons we did or didn't learn as we were growing up. As my children get older, I want to make sure I'm doing what I can to pass on some sensible financial management skills, even if none of my children follow in my footsteps professionally.

The most critical thing a parent can do is to set an example of sound financial management. Even though we are all unique and born with different personalities, we tend to model some of the parental behavior we saw as children. Although I understand financial principles and could "justify" certain financial decisions, I try to consider the message I'm sending to my children. I can already sense the natural approaches my children might take to money by the way they manage their piggy banks, but I will never regret the positive influence I may have on their future financial decisions.

Example aside, what are some other things we can do as parents to teach our children sound money management skills? I suggest giving them financial responsibility at a relatively young age. This can be done by providing an allowance with expectations or helping them participate in entrepreneurial activities. Handing children money with no expectations doesn't encourage much learning, but adding some responsibility to meet obligations can encourage simple prioritizing or budgeting at a young age. Many children also like to participate in childhood businesses like lemonade stands, recycling, yard care, or babysitting. These activities teach important business skills at a young age before the decisions become more critical and life altering. These skills can also be taught through games like Monopoly or computer games like Lemonade or Zoo Tycoon. I try to make learning these skills fun for my children at this age so they are prepared for the time when money isn't always so much fun anymore.